The close relationship between Sandra and Joyce is clear, and with all good friendships, there’s a give and take.

“Joyce touches my life every time I see her. She has some good days and some not so good. On a good day, she smiles, looks around at the other people, sometimes tries to ask something and repeats some of what I say,” Sandra says. “So far, there has never been a day that she has not eaten 100 percent of her lunch, for which I award her the ‘good girl award’ for doing such a good job.”

According to Joyce’s son, John, “the only time Mom eats all her food is when either Sandra or Mary – a paid caregiver – comes. It’s that bond they’ve formed, and I am so grateful to Sandra and Mary for that.”

To become a volunteer in the HOCF Feeding Program, individuals must first go through the standard HOCF Volunteer Training, which is given over the course of several days. Afterwards, additional classes, where volunteers learn feeding techniques, emergency procedures and other skills specific to the Feeding Program, are required. Volunteers are always needed.

“I have learned to be patient, calm, listen, be thankful for my blessings and to share friendship and love with patients and staff,” Sandra said. “Any advice to another volunteer would be to keep an open mind, be flexible with your time and lead with your heart.”

In November, Sandra will celebrate two years as Joyce’s volunteer, companion and best girlfriend.

“What a blessing that we’ve had that much time,” Sandra says.

For more information about HOCF Volunteer Training and the Feeding Program, contact Volunteer Services Manager Jean Pearson at 828-894-2881. The next volunteer training is coming up in mid-October. Volunteers serve in skilled and assisted living facilities in Polk County, as well as Inman, and Spartanburg, S.C.

– article submitted by Marsha Van Hecke